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Teaching Gerunds and Infinitives: Why 'I Enjoy to Run' Won't Go Away

The gerund/infinitive distinction has no logic students can apply. Here's how to teach it through patterns, chunks, and frequency rather than rules.

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Matthew James Soldato

ESL Teacher & Founder of DrillKitMar 24, 2026

The Impossible Rule

Why do we say 'I enjoy running' but 'I want to run'? Why 'I avoid going' but 'I decide to go'? There is no semantic or logical rule that predicts whether a verb takes a gerund (-ing) or an infinitive (to + verb). Linguists have attempted explanations (gerunds for ongoing/general activities, infinitives for future/specific intentions), but these 'rules' break down immediately: 'I like swimming' and 'I like to swim' are both correct with near-identical meaning. The truth is that gerund/infinitive selection is a property of individual verbs — it must be learned verb by verb, like irregular past tenses. This means teaching gerunds and infinitives through rules is doomed. Teaching through patterns, chunking, and high-frequency exposure is effective.

The Three Categories

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Verb + Gerund Only

Enjoy, avoid, mind, finish, suggest, consider, keep, practice, imagine. Memory trick: 'MEGA FICS' (Mind, Enjoy, Give up, Avoid/Admit, Finish, Imagine, Consider, Suggest).

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Verb + Infinitive Only

Want, decide, hope, plan, promise, refuse, learn, agree, offer, manage. These tend to relate to future intention or willingness.

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Both (Sometimes Different Meaning)

'I stopped smoking' (quit the habit) vs. 'I stopped to smoke' (paused in order to smoke). 'I remember locking the door' (I recall doing it) vs. 'I remember to lock the door' (I don't forget). These dual-use verbs are B2+ material.

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Teacher Tip

Teach the 10 most common gerund-only verbs and the 10 most common infinitive-only verbs as vocabulary items with example sentences. Students learn 'enjoy + -ing' as a fixed chunk, the way they learn 'depend on' — as a partnership, not a rule application. Use sentence completion activities where students finish sentences about themselves: 'I enjoy ___', 'I want ___', 'I avoid ___'. Personal content aids retention.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I teach gerunds and infinitives to ESL students?

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Don't teach a rule — teach high-frequency verb patterns as chunks. Group the 10 most common verbs that take gerunds (enjoy, avoid, mind, finish...) and the 10 most common that take infinitives (want, decide, hope, plan...). Practice with personalized sentence completion. Treat gerund/infinitive selection as vocabulary, not grammar.

Is there a rule for when to use gerund or infinitive?

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No reliable rule exists. Attempted explanations (gerunds for 'real/current', infinitives for 'future/hypothetical') break down with too many exceptions to be useful. The most efficient approach is learning verb + gerund/infinitive combinations as fixed patterns, similar to learning irregular verbs.

When should I teach gerunds and infinitives?

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Introduce the most common patterns at B1 (enjoy + -ing, want + to). Teach the full range of verbs at B2. Introduce meaning-change verbs (stop, remember, try) at B2-C1. Don't introduce all three categories simultaneously — it's overwhelming. Build gradually over multiple lessons.

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